Deviant Advice

Hi Deviant Advice.

So maybe I’m just strange, but my girlfriend and I are… I think we’re growing apart. I love her totally and we’re even talking about moving to California to get married. Well, we were at least. Anyways, so we really love each, or so I thought. I came in one day and she’s watching porn, HET PORN. Some guy and some girl having sex. She always told me she was just into girls and didn’t like men at all, but now this? What’s the deal? Is she really straight? Is she bi? I don’t know what’s going on.

- SA, Houston

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Dear Deviant Advice.

I feel so bad. Years ago I lost the man who I loved so much because I couldn’t stop being selfish. Now he’s gone forever and I don’t know what to do so that I can move on. It hurts to know that I made such a mistake. How do I fix this?

- DC, Burlington

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Hi There.

Ok. This is embarassing. My boyfriend totally wants to be one of those UFC/MMA fighters. He “trains” all the time and talks about entering the local fights here, but he never does. It’s good though, because he’d get his ass kicked in seconds. I really do want him to be happy, but I also want him to realize that he really can’t make this work. Deviant Advice, how do I break this news to him?

- CH, Ann Arbor

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So let’s take a moment and talk about the site, shall we?

I have a lot of vision for the site and one of those is to make it into a great destination that people love to come to (not to mention love to advertise on!). In trying to figure out just how I’m going to do this, I’ve considered several options, but the one that makes the most sense is to make it more interactive through you all.

In the coming months, I will be examining various ways to get you all in on the excitement. At the moment, I currently have a DISQUS comment system in place and run the site on WordPress. I think it’s a great combination, but I’m not entirely certain that it will suit my needs of being able to allow you all to post advice requests and allow folks to answer those requests. Of course, I’m always happy to get suggestions as the site is built to entertain you all, so it needs to reflect you all.

That’s it for now. Thanks for being a reader and I hope you’re having a Deviant Day!

Oh my gosh Deviant Advice, my friend needs help!

She’s about to get married and it’s to the WRONG GUY. He’s AWFUL. He treats her like crap, but she doesn’t see it. Last time we all went out for “girl’s night out” he texted her like a million times to see what she was doing. If she didn’t text back fast enough for him, he’d call her and ask her what she was doing, if she was drunk, and other stuff. He’s a control freak and I think that her marrying him is wrong. What do I do Deviants? Do I let her do this, or do I stand up when the preacherman says “If anyone objects…” Help help help!

- MR, Puyallup

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